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Originally Posted by toomanycats
You don't really become acutely aware of them unless you've had some pretty painful attachment injuries -- such as being betrayed or abandoned by someone to whom you were deeply attached.
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I never knew that. I am anxious in therapy bc my T uses a lot of the frame to hide his context and view point. It seems like instead of taking one leap of faith to confide in him, and having it abide as an attachment, I have to talk myself into trusting him 1000 times an hour. He sets the bar high and the pace pretty fast- which I do like. However, sometimes I get spooked to tell so much to someone I d0nt really get to know any better session after session even though he is learning all my secrets. I do like my T. He is quick thinking and perceptive- very smart and good with words. He is done at fifty minutes though no matter what happens- he send you out in tears and as you sit in the stair well if you need a moment before facing the street. It seems so harsh!