Thanks everyone!
At this point I don't even want to try to work this out with him and even if I did, he doesn't want to see me until the group sessions are done (mid October). I called my EAP a have an appointment with a female counsellor next week. It's short term counselling but there is no set limit to the number of sessions. I also called to drop out of the depression group counselling. I'm a little worried that he'll find out I dropped out of the group and call me to try and talk me back into going.