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Old Aug 17, 2017, 10:50 PM
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Originally Posted by toomanycats View Post
I just think you're generalizing. I don't think therapy subjects people to repeated abandonments. I think people who are terrified of abandonment see it everywhere even when it's not happening.

Exactly. I have abandonment issues. I frequently think I am too needy or to much so people will leave especially Those I am closest to even hubby whom I have been with for for 27 years and my best friend of 11 years. T and I had to build a relationship of trust in order to accomplish what we have...bit she knows the lack of trust will occasionally come up with her l.
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