The point of the post was to suggest he might want to see a therapist/doctor to get an evaluation or counseling for his obsessive behaviors and distorted thoughts. If he isn't interested in that, that's totally his prerogative. I was just tying to be helpful since he seems to be engaging in a lot of negative self-talk and seems pained by his thoughts that he "isn't good enough for a girl this beautiful." Changing this way of thinking-- and the obsessive spending of energy and money on being "totally ripped"-- might be a way to be happier. Those of us on the forum just want to see others move towards being in less emotional pain.