I know my last comment came out long. I wanted to clarify that I was coming from the mindset that on this forum, we all have different issues, disorders conditions, whatever that we are dealing with. Also, each of us respond to different types of support. I don't deal well with "tough love" for instance, while for some, that's the best approach. So I wanted to ask, because I was seeing reactions from you, Hope, that suggested the approaches you have been getting may not be entirely helpful for you. I was not trying to call you out or make you feel bad at all, and just wanted to say that before I went to bed.