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Originally Posted by Calilady
It wasn't professional of her to leave you hanging like that and then call you so many times. Very push/pull behavior from her, as well.
I know how painful the attachment is and how we struggle to do what is right for us, but it sounds like you're being very self-aware, which is awesome!
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Thanks, it wasn't fair of her and I think it was more about reassurance for help and help regulating her own emotions around our rupture. It is very push and pull and that hurts. Her boundaries are not the best to be honest. She makes them and breaks them consistently, what I need is stability.
Sorry you have felt attachment pain before, it's horrible
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Originally Posted by satsuma
I'm really sorry, this sounds really hard for you. But I do want to say well done for putting your needs first and taking care of yourself. I think you are right that you would keep on being upset/humiliated as this T has proved to be unreliable.
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It hurts to be rejected and forgotten about a lot. I don't think that is her intention but it is how I feel. Thank you satsuma