I was young (22) it happened when I wasn't seeking it particularly, we were friends for a while (several months) before it became more - he was keener initially, but I always liked him. I don't think I could ever have got together with someone who wasn't a friend first. It takes me a while to trust, in love and friendships.

After a short while I told him about the period of depression I'd had (I was coming out of) but looking back I'm not sure he fully understood that it would be a life long thing on and off, not sure I did myself. Unfortunately I have had several periods of depression since (including post natal), we've been together 23 years now. Tbh it's only really the last few years he has accepted and understood my MH issues, so it's not always been easy for either of us although I've always been functional with my depression and not severely affected. It's been a journey for both of us but I'm glad he's shared it with me.

I'm not sure that sharing on the first date is a good move, people can be easily overwhelmed, but other than that I'd really recommend becoming friends first (in fact I think friendship in general is a fantastic thing to have) and taking things slowly - it builds a solid foundation, and even if nothing more develops it's always good to have friends.