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Originally Posted by Crypts_Of_The_Mind
I will help you with the 3 things then.
1. You are a good problem solver when things get "dicey", and relationships aren't always going to be easy
2. You are (despite your complaints otherwise) there for people you care for when they need someone
3. You refuse to give up just because "things get tough".
Those are all very good qualities about you and things that would make for a strong relationship.
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Yeah, I guess you have a point. I can be valuable to those who I am able to get close to. Unfortunately, building those kind of relationships with people is still a struggle for me because I have a hard time connecting with people.
I'm not saying that it's impossible for me since if that were the case, I wouldn't have allowed you to get as close to me as I have. I'm only saying that it's not my strong suite and is extremely difficult for me to just approach random people and ask them things without knowing them first. I can't just approach a woman that I barely know and ask her out or even be able to talk to her without getting nervous and stuttering like an idiot wierdo without knowing about her first.
Since I have this issue, it makes building myself up to the point to where I am that loyal caring friend extremely difficult for me.