Nothing wrong with being a gamer. My husband is a gamer. He talks to other gamers online, although most of them he know in real life. But he doesn't sit there Day and night. He works, has hobbies and other stuff to do. Also him and his gaming bodies figure out when and who is off and plan accordingly. No one gets mad that others are at work or sleep.

Also most people can't be on the phone for hours either. That's why I wonder how can he afford being up on the phone or games so much?