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Originally Posted by Emily Fox Seaton
No. My grudges don't take that form. Usually they are people that either have done something to me.. or I think have. Or they are people who have proven themselves to be troublemakers and I don't want to be around in any capacity. I usually don't fight with them.. I just avoid them.
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Oh I see. Avoiding toxic people or people who don't bring value to your life, is perfectly fine imho. We have accouple of abrasive people at work. I keep my distance and only communicate if need to per work assignment. They are of no importance for me. I am better off avoiding. I think you are doing the right thing. It's not a grudge but self-preservation.