But this is the psychotherapy sub-forum... this is only a small part of this entire site. I'm sure if you look at the entire site as a whole, you will find that many more people are posting about things that have nothing to do with attachment to or work with a therapist. This sub-forum isn't a good sampling of the entire psych community - this sub-forum is literally dedicated to this topic. Edit to add: it's like going to the substance abuse section of this forum and saying "why does everyone in the psych world have a substance abuse problem?"