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Originally Posted by Swimmersusan
I don't post so often, but I read in here a lot and felt the need to just respond because o have been following your story with WHT as of late.
I don't have much advice or infact many wise words, but just wanted to say I'm sorry that it has come to this because apart from the obvious, you seemed to have built quite a strong rapport and a good connection so I can just imagine what's going throighb your head right now.
I really hope whatever you decide, it works out well for you!
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Thanks for your support Swimmersusan, I did have a really good rapport with this t, I really get now how when we attach to someone hard to bigger disappointment when they mess up. I really believe though that she didn't intentionally do this and maybe she is just incredibly scatty. It is yet another t that has gone by the wayside for me. I did send her an email saying not to blame herself for this rupture. I said that I was so sad it had turned out like this and that I cried for two days. I hope to see you around here more often Swimmer
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Originally Posted by BrazenApogee
I am sorry you are having a hard time with another T. I remember how hard it was for you with last T. I am curious if your quick attachment has made it difficult to see potential red flags when you were starting the relationship.  |
I think you are right. The same thing happens in relationships I get so enmeshed and miss all the red flags, connection is very hard for me, it's either all or nothing.