Personally...I just dont see where continuing a relationship with your abusers is a must. I walked out of my parents lives for 20 years (and 2 U.S. states away) before trying to reconnect. Our father we are done with forever, but our mom we are good with because she had good intent (just a little harsh, but as influenced by our father's beatings).

I hope things get better and pray that you get strength to carry on.