Great and thank you. I have a little experience with this. My encouragement is sent your way.

As for the video itself, note that legally it cannot be shared beyond those persons you have originally been advised about. If you haven't already, start to document everything; not just the even, but all persons involved and including any conversations.

Now if I understood this correctly, what happened is considered a sexual assault. I encourage you to approach the police on this matter and provide them with the same statement. If you feel uncomfortable with this, there are ways to find an advocate to assist you. Contact the EAP of your employer if one is in place. Contact your mental health association. Contact your local chapter/support group for survivors of assault. Contact information for all of these should be available through your local health region/hospitals.

I want to tell you too that you in no way brought this on upon yourself. No one deserves this kind of attention. It is never acceptable. It is illegal.

Take care.