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Originally Posted by Out There
This sounds very messy. Could you talk to new T about it ? It's about what you would like - not Ex T. It's sad they can be so damaging that people have to heal from them ( been there ).
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Thank you for not being judgemental and being understanding. I really appreciate it and thank you! I just left another T after not feeling it with him and also, some- what I felt were-
strange comments. So I'm in between T's
In one of my last sessions w/ex-female T, I felt manipulated. After I told her that I was tired of being loyal to women who were harsh with me- I finally had the guts to tell her that it included her. She had been harsh with me the session prior. It was a big deal...stepping up to ex-t like that. She backtracked and told me she was harsh with me because she puffed up and wanted to keep me, not lose me, and that she had to discuss "us" in her own personal therapy. I felt guilty and didn't wanna let her down by leaving. Then I felt manipulated. I feel all kinds of things.
And now this.