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Old Aug 20, 2017, 08:06 PM
Calilady Calilady is offline
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Originally Posted by daisydid View Post
She doesn't. You know she doesn't. It's through our actual relationships that we find this happiness.

If I were you, I would block the boyfriend's social media. Is seeing this making you happy?

I've given a lot of thought as to whether I'll want to have contact with T when we terminate. I think I've settled on maybe once the initial pain dissipates. But if I were in your shoes, with no closure? Not a chance. It would retraumatize me.
I'm going to block tomorrow. It's her b-day tomorrow. They were blocked from all social media for the past, I'd say, three weeks. It's like I want to feel the pain or something.
I unblocked in a way of acting out after I listened to her message. Totally freaked out.
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