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Old Aug 20, 2017, 09:27 PM
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Originally Posted by Calilady View Post
I'm a bit hurt at the, "I think it would be a good idea to continue forward and end therapy." She did go onto say, "And find someone you're comfortable with." But I almost feel rejected. I was very specific. "As of xxx date, therapy sessions have ended, permanently."

In the letter, I mention "the end" a few times. WTH? YOU think it would be a good idea. YOU didn't have a say. God, I'm so upset.
Because her false ego can't handle the rejection from you. So in order to avoid any sort of pain this situation may bring her due to her failures, she takes power over the situation by minimizing and devaluing your ending the relationship. It's a very manipulative and highly effective way to get you to self-doubt and disempower yourself. It's crazy-making.
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