Congrats! I feel like when I lived alone triggers were dramatically less.

I set up my rent/tv/internet to be paid automatically. T utility bills, paid they day I received them. I have a difficult time remembering to pay bills.

But I could invite people over, or not. If I did not want someone there, I could ask them to leave.

I am a neat freak, so everything was the way I liked it. If you are not a neat freak, no one can tell you crap about it.

Once you fall into your routine, that is set by you and YOUR needs and no one else's you will be golden.

It is the best feeling to be able to relax in your own place without being made to feel like an extended guest. Even with roommates I did not feel it was MY place. You cannot truly relax that way.