Alwayschanging,

I know there are phases and levels to anything to speak on the jealous issue. I think you have to realize at one point there was, maybe this is jealous and leads in to the ptsd issue especially if you think you all have worked an area that they have changed some wha. At the end of the day you have to deal with the why's yea you do some communicating on how not to be . I just don't beleive folks are not jealous all that much some of it is to just understand what happened in our youth since children beleive everything. It is the way we are if your systems is the disruptive type then try to not share as much. If someone deserves to be told off you gotta protect urselves all of it has a toll on our overall well being.

Iff an alter has told off someone then they have varying needs to be how their are espeically if society gives them nothing but hel*. If you shared too much too soon then they understand that you can't too much with dealing with what you have to deal with.