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Originally Posted by dlantern
Bullying Vent.....
Our strategy, is employ a little bit of logic to certain scernious when we don't any trouble. For the outer world and within our selves. This is a good vent for what I'm talking about is with odor since that has been in the media. Sometimes alters get enamoured with reading for anxious moments from their history, say at doctors visit. I think a good strategy is to say, coool had you read an article on odor before this, is there a patient that you were previously with that had odor problems. Is this also your odor provoking of anxiety your kind of pet peeve? Could have said ;;; I don't think you should really express a face that says your are serious but jokely. I can read all day and joke at how lost people are. I often wonder if folks are using us for make up sex or fiesitiness can mean sexy anything but coming on to the person as a reason should be a no no. It is too typical and gets old after a while go to more instances of where ur intelligence shows is what we do to get past sitautions
This happened to a friend she is super brittle and deosn't want to be super ghetto about everything at the same time being buffled is what has to happened. At the end of the day I'm there for a goal to see about medical health and not to show off our quick switches with spoof or quick gab jokes. Kids aside whome gets enough experiences anyway the map need only say we joked in youth I'm such and such needed to get past a funny moment because those I brought to school today aren't funny at all being a kid of 80s.
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Im sorry but your post doesnt make any sense to me.
example your title led me to believe the post was going to be about how the body one and alters communicate.
then when I entered your thread I see a statement ....bullying bent which lead me to believe the thread was going to be about someone bullying someone else.
then when I read further I see something about odor and the media then odor and how some alters like to read about odor problem while waiting at a doctors office,
then a bunch of questions about whether the doctor has patients with odor problems
then about telling jokes
then about sex and fear someone is using you sexually / paranoia stuff.
then this didnt happen to you but someone else who is brittle and doesnt what to be a ghetto?
then its back to being you and how you have plans to go to the doctors. and something about a map and school...
very confusing. does your computer or cell phone you are on have autocorrect. sometimes when things I write look like this its because my autocorrect is changing my words.
my suggestion is if things are as out of it as in this post you might want to contact your treatment provider. they will be able to help you to sort out what s going on for you so that you can make sense of things better.
heres a tip I used when things got going a bit out of it. I would remember that with dissociative disorders reality remains intact. so though it may seem confusing there is some sense of reality and knowing whats what. then I asked inside to slow down and tell me things one at a time and tell me how each thing is related to the other.
example ask inside and find out how communication strategies is related to bullying, sex, being in the doctors office reading about body odors and so on. where is the common reality thread and what is the trigger that has set everyone going off. and what self help tools do you have that can help calm things down...grounding, breathing, ....