Hi, Pretty new here.

I started going out with my current girlfriend 5 months ago. We both live a few hours apart and have made consist efforts see each other, have fun together and communicate well.
She is a very quiet and reserved person, however has opened up to me on a number of personal issues, which I am currently trying to better understand.

Given this, I am finding it very hard to speak with her about our relationship, she seems to try and avoid talking about what it is called in public (girlfriend/boyfriend) and has left me very confused and stressed, as one moment we'd be very intimate and the next she'd be deflecting.

This is also causing me to unexplainably offering to help her in every possible way, to the point where I think it might be having a negative effect on our relationship.

She is moving away for 10 months with work and I am worried I shouldn't leave her on a bad not, but don't know how to address it..

Appreciate any help.. thanks