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Old Aug 22, 2017, 07:09 PM
Bill3 Bill3 is offline
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he got mad as i expected.
It concerns me that he got angry about a reasonable request/plan. It is one thing to disagree and discuss it, it is another to shout you down.

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i told him he doesnt even listen to me and always gets mad when i dont say exactly what he wants to hear.
This is not a good sign.

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any way to overcome this problem
I suspect that many therapists would want you to gradually get accustomed to what you fear. That would require an understanding and supportive partner, or perhaps someone who would agree to sleep a your place for a while while you get accustomed to what you fear. How understanding and supportive do you think the guy you are speaking to now would be?
Thanks for this!
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