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he got mad as i expected. he said im giving up and talked as if i had told him i dont want to see him anymore! i told him he doesnt even listen to me and always gets mad when i dont say exactly what he wants to hear. he even said my behavior is not normal because i always change my mind at the last minute.
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Oh my gosh!!!!
Do you want your life controlled & manipulated???? These are HUGE RED FLAGS that are telling you exactly what kind of personality you are getting mixed up with this guy.
Yea, manipulated into being a peace maker who never gets listened to & always has to manipulate everything into looking like its YOUR FAULT.
This so called relationship is a NIGHTMARE just waiting to happen if you continue on with this guy. A life of misery always being made to feel this way every time you disagree with the way he wants to do things.
I was stupid enough not to listen to the red flags I saw with the guy I ended up marrying & had a miserable marriage for 33 years. These red flags are worse than the ones I saw before my marriage. If a guy treated me like this guy treated you I would have absolutely nothing more to do with him.
You will be treated with disrespect for the rest of your life if you end up really getting involved with this guy.
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any way to overcome this problem?
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best way is not to get involved with this guy in the first place. Find someone who is truly sensitive & caring about your needs. Honestly, sleeping in the same bed with this guy will be the least of your nightmare problems.