Profiles not gooey or having other crap about warmth, healing etc or saying stuff like "Are you depressed?" etc or having pictures of open fields / candle flames / rainbows / blue skies etc.

Really quick in grasping what I'm trying to convey -- both emotionally and verbally -- even if they disagree (as in, I need to feel like the T fundamentally "gets" me even if they think I'm dead wrong to think / feel the way I do).

Solidly well-read in terms of the theory / latest research etc.

Current T fits all three. Former T fit one and three.

Oh, and also really non-defensive but haven't seen that as yet.