I am a person like you here that are people pleasers. I learned later in life that I dont have to be. Sometimes i find it hard to do like i have to appease certain people because i'm afraid of them especially people on the psych wards etc when i was sick with mental illness years ago. anyway, be true to yourself no matter what it takes, but what I'm saying is to use your judgement too. I also think Patty Duke who was schitzophrenic is an example of her plight as a star that came out of the closet about her predicament and was able to be a role model for me too. Just think she could be both and all the personalties she portrayed. The Patty Duke show is now played daily on cable tv here and it freaks me out to think she is both characters and no wonder why she is one. I do want to read her book and am wondering if anyone here has read it? well, do be yourself and i think we all have several tools with which to work with in keeping our personalities in line. good luck