You are important and respectful and try to not dislike yourself just because you're not paid much attention to because of your brother. You and only you can be your true self. you were born with gifts even if you are not sure of them right now. Look for truth in yourself and be true to yourself and don't let what others say have much bearing on who you are to yourself. To me it is a confusing concept and can't quite wrap my head around it complely and i am confused right now as to the advise i just gave you myself. It just sounded revelent at the moment!!!good luck