I'm trying to rediscover myself and my identity after being married for 20 years starting at 20 years old and being a full time mom to an only child who just left for college. I am divorced (for many years). I'm on a new journey of self discovery and not sure where to start either. My therapist can help me I hope.

I was the "golden" child of my family and always, always played down my accomplishments so as not to hurt my brother or sister. It's a tough position to be in all the way around. I hope you can find some peace and healing. Sending big hugs.