Hey guys, thanks for the support. i am rather emotionally fragile. Candy, this reporter did not check several facts and it had a bias. I am glad to know there are professional, ethical people like you out there. You know what I need to ask? Please don't have this be a thread of misunderstandings. My heart is out right here and can be easily squished. Yes, there are two sides to every story but our side is the one that is important to me right now. My blessing is that the kids are fairly well despite all. Rap, Spaz, thanks for the words as well. I am soaking them all in as I try to move on from here.