Hello I am new and just discovered this site. I have never discussed this with anyone except my husband. But my issue is getting out of hand and I am getting into despiration. I have this fear,phobia,something?? of buying clothes. I just do not like anything out there. My winter coat is 4+ years old and falling apart and I did not buy this coat is was my daughters and she bought herself a new coat and I kept her old one. I patch my jeans. I wear the same clothes over and over. My husband has 15 pairs of jeans I have 2 with patches, he has over 30 dress shirts and I have maybe 6 shirts and only 2 can be wore in public. I am not afraid of shopping I do it all the time ....I just don't buy anything! I just come home crying and knowing my husband is going to be upset. I am even so crazy as to try to shop online but can't seem to push the complete the sale button. My shoes I am currently wearing my husband bought for me . Sometimes I just cry because I don't have anything nice to wear and then I cry more because I have the means to fix it but just can't. It just seems so stupid. I don't know what to do...I don't know how to fix it.