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Old Aug 24, 2017, 04:46 PM
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i just think, whats the worst that could happen?
maybe you should read accounts of women who married men with anger & manipulation issues & find out what the worst that could happen could be.

When anger becomes physical (& you have no idea what he is like when you are physically around him) there are women who have lost their life with men like that. We have shelters for women who end up with abusive H' here in the USA.....have no idea how your country cares for women who end up in a marriage like that.

When anger stayes as mental abuse the marriage becomes a mental prison.

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i just love that he knows all my flaws and still wants me.
People like that LOVE people with flaws because they USE THEM against them & for their own benefit & use them against the person in order to manipulate them. They use the other persons low self-esteem & desperate desire to be loved by someone to manipulate them to get what they wants.

You can bet its NOT LOVE or he wouldn't treat you like he is treating you. NO ONE who TRULY loves someone would treat them this way. One way love doesn't make a quality relationship but I guess that's not really what you are looking for by what you write here.

Maybe it would be WISE for you to do some research on what abusive relationships are like & how they started before the woman found out she was right in the middle of being abused

An abusive relationship is not better than no relationship at all. Your faults aren't dangerous to him. His faults can end up being seriously dangerous to you. Is it really worth the risk? Finding out after being trapped in a marriage can be a very painful experience.
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