I agree with Eskie on the just be blunt and tell her to stop whining over and over and not helping herself.
I have no patience for that ongoing drama... But then again I am a pretty much a blunt person. I dont go out of my way to hurt anyones feelings but her non stop drama is wearing on you.
Set boundaries and dont allow her to set over the line.
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