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Originally Posted by Jennifer 1967
I agree with TishaBuv's remarks (both posts). I know you feel guilty but it's really not your fault or your responsibility. Does he have family that can turn to? There are agencies that can help him if he reaches out. He has to want to help himself.
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You're right, and I do see this now. Initially, I had overwhelming guilt, but others here, and you too, are helping me to see I don't need to feel guilty. He has done this to himself. I also know it's not my responsibility. I took care of him for four months, now he has to take care of himself.
He does have a case worker and is in the system to get government assistance. He should get food stamps soon and SSI, if he remains unemployed. I think he will be OK, provided his mental health stays in tact.
His family refuses to help him anymore. He has burnt bridges there and they are all fed up with him.