Yes this can be frustrating Illuminati, especially if we are in crises or in need of venting about our current issues.

It is probably the case that many members listed in the chat rooms not engaging in open chat are often engaged in a Private conversation 'PM'...Giving the impression that they are away or not active.

This is an option if you wish to chat on a personal level with another member. Just ask in open chat if there is anyone interested in discussing your issues privately....or alternatively follow you to the 'Emotional Support' chat room. Of Course there may not always be someone willing to chat with you, as they may prefer to stick to lighthearted conversation, but it doesn't hurt to ask. (hugs)