So last night I skyped video chatted with this guy I met through OKC. It was fine but he was clearly trying to make sexual innuendo's and failing. But like, I just wanted to talk and get to know him, but it seems like all the guys I end up chatting with want to jump right to sex talk. I basically have to shut them down right away. What is up with this trend? Why is like the first thing about some sexual act instead of just trying to get to know each other?

What do I need to do to change how the men are approaching me?

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