Crypts - My main concern was her welfare at the immediate time. To the extent that i asked the local police to check on her as I was worried about her...

She was/is fine. Was with her boyfriend all day. Still hasn't opened or read a single message I sent. It would have been nice even to get a message of "Can't make it, i'll explain later" or something to that effect...

I may or may not be valid in feeling this.. but i really do feel worthless.

Oh it was for my birthday as well..