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Originally Posted by MatBell
This has happened on a number of occasions. She lets me text her, and if I cancel an appointment, she wants to talk to know how I am.
Sometimes when we talk she's said how I mustn't do certain things otherwise she "wouldn't be able to sleep at night". Other times when we talk about my family, she has said how my family did something to "us" (instead of saying "to you" that is me) and then she corrected herself and said "to you". It just made me feel like she was on my side against all the problems I'm facing. I liked that.
And last time when we talked a bit about the therapy, she said that she valued our relationship and that it gives her joy to talk to me.
I don't really have many besides her to show concern, and some kind of affection, towards me. So it has been some nice reminders of how it is to actually feel wanted by someone.
Do any of you feel a bit of the same?
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Maybe your T has some countertransference?