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Old Dec 27, 2007, 05:58 PM
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i am really glad that your t called you back... when my t has to rearrange his schedule... it is really triggering for me too (it really opens up some issues)... it has happened several times since september...where his schedule and mine don't seem to work... that is happening now for me... my appointments are tuesdays... and both are holidays... he is so booked he wasn't able to fit me in... i am planning on having him help me figure out how to keep from loosing ground when this happens... maybe you could do this also... i know for me part of the trigger is the feeling of being abandoned... why bother... it isn't too safe of a place to be... i guess what i am trying to say is... i (maybe you too) need to figure out how to stay safe when the old messages come into play... for me it's the messages my abusers taught me... "your not important... your being stupid...no one cares" does that make any sense? because those messages are the same ones that started the "need" to si to begin with... and that is why for me they trigger me right back there...please take care of yourself...lyn
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