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Originally Posted by ChippDamage
Thank you so much everyone, this definitely has given me much needed assurance that I needed to hear and confirm my presumptions. Of course I'm partially to blame because I'm aware that I'm perpetuating these fights by lingering here.
As for the therapy, I'm considering this whether I achieve my independence or not. Thanks so much once again everyone. The support is really impactful!
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You're never to blame for her problems. Your outbursts are only natural because she is a threat to your well being, happiness, and freedom.
Stand up for yourself and get away from her. I only wish that I had the courage to do the same thing before my mother passed away. I would have loved to pack my stuff up and drive away will giving her the middle finger and telling her how much I hate her for what she put me through. Unfortunately, I was a coward who was scared to death of her.
So take control of your own life and stop worrying about who's fault something is and don't feel guilty for leaving her; these are what she wants you to feel so that she can control you. Get away and get your much deserved fresh start.
It will be better once you do.