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Old Aug 26, 2017, 11:50 AM
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I guess what i have said about my sleeping issues upset him
His ANGER was because you didnt let him control you not because of your sleeping issues.

He didnt like the fact that you wouldnt allow him to come & stay in your house with you at this point in the relationship when he wanted to play house with you & GET A FREE PLACE to stay. Which was totally unwise & taking advantage of your feelings toward him.

You may think it was your sleeping issues because you feel that was what was behind your decision but in reality no one with wisdom would let a guy they dont really know come & live in the same house with them like that. His behavior is what isnt NORMAL or considerate of a woman they care about. Guys who truly love you will care about you & your reputation & not just USE YOU to get what they want.

NO his reason for being mad had NOTHING TO DO WITH your sleeping issues & he is probably using the silent treatment to manipulate you more to get you to come around to doing what HE WANTS YOU TO DO.

Dont allow yourself to be open to manipulation like that. You are worth more than the way you are being treated by him especially at this really early point in the relationship. Abuse only gets worss, never better when that abusive person is sure that what they are doing is just fine & trying to place the blame on you.

You will be bettwr off if he doesnt call back but as I said this silence is usually just a form of manipulation to get you to come around to do what he wants from you.
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