Yeah, I actually count myself really lucky that I can't just bury the actual reason for being unhappy with things like this in cynicism and bitterness. Of course it is great for her even if it throws my crappy situation into sharp relief.

I think walking the non-cynical path is often aggravating and more difficult in the short term, but probably one of the biggest predictors overall of even being capable of having a life one can be legit fairly pleased with.