My T has given me his number and allows me to call or text if need be but he turns his phone off at a certain time, so calling at your time now would do me no good.

I have only actually called his phone once, and it was a pre-planned call we had. Does she allow you to text? Maybe try that first, otherwise like you I'd call a crisis line or go to the hospital instead of a late night call. I just can't do it. I hate bothering people, especially late and on weekends