You are not selfish to want what normally comes with a good relationship. You are human.
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But as my boyfriend is focusing on getting treatment in another state a lot of times he doesn't call me back very fast or respond to my texts. It feels like he's pushing me away, It makes me question if he takes our relationship seriously. I guess that's wrong?
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No that is not wrong.
When there are children from another marriage, relationships are always a balancing act and often a challenging one. From what you have said here, I don't blame you one bit for thinking that he is not at all close to getting the balance right with regard to you.
Loving him does not automatically mean that you should be in a relationship with him. It hurts to consider this, but it would be completely fair, it would be okay, if you were to conclude that he is not able to be the partner that you thought he could be and that you deserve and that it is okay (not selfish) to want.
It would be okay to move on.