Yes. Jennifer, I feel the same way about kindness. Someone can be a freaking genius, and while that will be attractive to me, I won't date someone who is hurtful, unkind, or pushes me away.

Shared humor is actually more important to me than one would think. I find that when my true sense of humor comes out, when someone ACTUALLY thinks I'm funny, and vice versa, I actually think someone else is funny, is a true turn on for me.