If he cared about me, wouldn't he try to work something out?

I wouldn't expect him to have feelings about me like I have for him, but is it normal for a T to do this after 5 years of working together? He doesn't have a waiting list or anything like that.

I know it is not technically wrong in the ethical sense, but it just seems cruel. I wish his actions didn't have such an effect on me, but they do.