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Originally Posted by Rayne_
I'm sorry you went through something similar. Was your T bad as in mean or abusive to you or do you mean not good at the job? I'm so glad you found the best T you ever had.
He was such an integral part of my life for 5 years. With other things in my life declining, I just can't bounce back as I would have when I was younger. I am afraid I'm going to become a bitter person. I am so afraid it will affect me that much. I don't want to be that person.
Thank you so much for your kindness growlycat, I really needed to talk to someone and there has been nobody.
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No I can't say this old t was abusive although leaving before transitioning to a new t is patient abandonment and considered unethical by my ts I've had since. He was a smart man but not a warm one. His boundaries were for his sake not mine.
It is scary how many poor therapists are practicing. I always say to trust your instincts and move on if someone seems off.
Keep posting if you want to because other time zones will kick in and you are sure to get more responses. Take care!!