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Old Aug 27, 2017, 06:37 PM
Calilady Calilady is offline
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Originally Posted by Xynesthesia View Post
I see. Well, these would have made me cringe as well...
"Ex-t: Oh, you can't tell her about us? Can you tell anyone about us?" - I think the reference is rather inappropriate this way, it does have a sense of crossing a line. I don't think one needs attachment issues to feel that way, the "us" in this context almost sounds like some kind of dirty secret.
Thank you!! I didn't like it. I'm gay, so it made it even more confusing. For some reason, I knew it made my stomach turn, but when I told other people about it and they in turn were upset and said it wasn't appropriate, I defended her.

They would all reply, "How would it sound if a man told a woman that? A woman who was struggling with her feelings for this man?"
Then I'd agree...it was confusing.