But to whom would they 'report' someone who SI's? I think that the part that they have to report to the police is if someone has S. ideations, but that's different than what Candybear is doing. And since she's already going to a T, I think the worst she'll get is a talkin'-to.

The risk of not going to the OB is greater than the risk of a talkin'-to. Sexually active or not, regular PAPs are extremely important. You don't want to let a bad PAP go for too long without treatment.