I laid down some ground rules for the Hungarian dude in my life. I told him if he wants to meet me IRL he needs to book a hotel when he comes over here, and to plan on making it a vacation/holiday or something. That way we don't have all the pressure to make things work the first time we meet.

I sort of got fried with his always wanting to talk, so have made contact via email for the last few days. I needed space, and I think he needed time to reaccess his approach.

I don't know exactly what is going to happen, or what will come of this, but at least I'm trying to be reasonable and safe. Right?