You could google aspergers and autism symptoms and see how you stack up. If your mom won't let it go, why not let her waste her money and have you tested by a neutral party. Your mother should have no say in the evaluation. She's biased. You know you don't have it...why not just get tested? When it comes back negative tell your mom you'd like help with the real problems: depression and anxiety. Good luck. Hope you are in a safe place in Houston.