Yup, I am a different husband on a different coast with a very different story. We split chores and don't really argue but my wife has lost all interest in any affection more than an almost cordial kiss, doesn't want to go to my work events or do much of anything with me, not even just sit and chat. I gave her some space to work through it and the next thing you know, years have gone by and she hasn't even made an effort. Youngest turns 18 next year, goes off to school and I will be out the door right behind him if nothing changes.